You’re starting your sugar dating journey? That’s awesome! As a plus-size queen, you deserve someone who loves and respects you. But, not everyone online is genuine. Here are 25 red flags to watch out for. Stay alert, sis!
1. They only compliment your body (and never your mind, personality, or achievements).
2. They insist on keeping things “discreet” (aka they’re probably hiding you).
3. They refuse to video chat or meet in public (catfish alert!).
4. They try to lowball your allowance (know your worth, babe).
5. They make backhanded comments about your size (bye, toxic energy).
6. They push your boundaries (no means no, period).
7. They’re overly critical of your appearance (you’re stunning—don’t let anyone tell you differently).
8. They ghost you after discussing financial support (they’re not serious).
9. They only want late-night “hangouts” (you’re not a booty call).
10. They compare you to other women (major ick).
11. They don’t respect your time (canceling last minute or showing up late).
12. They avoid talking about expectations (communication is key, honey).
13. They try to guilt you into lowering your standards (don’t fall for it).
14. They’re married or in a relationship (unless you’re cool with that, but tread carefully).
15. They only text you when they want something (you’re not an ATM or a convenience).
16. They make you feel like you should be “grateful” for their attention (you’re the prize, remember?).
17. They refuse to discuss safety or boundaries (🚩🚩🚩).
18. They’re overly controlling (your life, your rules).
19. They don’t invest in getting to know you (you’re more than your curves).
20. They try to rush into intimacy (take your time, queen).
21. They’re inconsistent with their words and actions (if they’re flaky, drop them).
22. They make you feel like you’re “too much” (you’re not—they’re just not enough).
23. They don’t celebrate your wins (a real partner will cheer you on).
24. They try to manipulate you emotionally (gaslighting is a no-go).
25. They don’t make you feel like the confident, beautiful woman you are (you deserve nothing less than royalty treatment).
Sugar dating can be fun and empowering if you’re with the right person. Trust your gut, set clear boundaries, and don’t settle for less than you deserve. You’re a queen—own it! 👑
Got any red flags you’ve encountered? Share them below—let’s keep each other safe! 💕
